I had a couple of errands to run this morning and TJ said that he would stay home with the kids so I could take the day for myself. A day out ALL BY MYSELF?!?! I didn’t know what to do with myself!
So, I ran my errands and then grabbed a bite to eat. I can’t remember the last time I ate at a restaurant alone. Luckily I had brought along a book I am reviewing so I wasn’t bored. TJ sent me a couple of texts, one of a huge tower he and Keeley made with blocks, and a couple of Charlie and Zoe smiling. I thoroughly enjoyed my quiet meal and then headed back home.
When I got back home everyone was having lunch; Keeley was sitting at the table and Charlie and Zoe were in their high chairs with daddy feeding them tandem-style. Then while I was unpacking some groceries TJ got Zoe and Charlie up for their nap, followed shortly by Keeley with not a single one fussing!
I took a look around the house and aside from some blocks in the living room, the house looks great…even cleaner than it was when I left! It seems like today was a breeze for him, whereas I am often exhausted and annoyed by lunchtime! I know that I can no longer give the excuse of, “well, you don’t know what it’s like being home alone with the kids” anymore!
I love that TJ is so great with the kids and doesn’t mind doing some cleaning. He would make a fine Mr. Mom!! Maybe I just needed a minute alone to catch my breath? I love my kids more than anything, and even with just a couple of hours of alone-time I feel refreshed and ready to go!
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My house would be a mess. It gets in a mess moments of daddy coming home!
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Yeah, David is usually better at keeping up with the house than I am, but I’m much better with the kids lol! Hope you had a good time out by yourself!
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When it comes to cleaning and cooking, my hubby definitely does a better job than I do! He’s a big kid himself so he’s really good with kids too.
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I think kids respond better sometimes to the parent who doesn’t stay at home, just because it’s different and new. Plus I stay at home too and you definitely need some time to recharge. It’s repetitive and definitely hard work.
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It’s easier for them because they don’t do it day in and day out. You are very lucky though!
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We all need to have a day to ourselves every once and a while. I’m glad you enjoyed yourself.
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I believe this happens to my family as well. my baby i believe has colic and cries all day long, yet husband came for lunch yesterday, fed him and my baby boy slept for 5 hours!!!! straight, something he NEVER does with me. i was so amazed and frankly a little bit jealous but i realize that he’s not frustrated all day long so he’s carrying baby with less anxiety which is why Adam (our baby) responded better to him.
I’m glad i’m not the only one who feels like this .
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